
Originally Posted by
Khamsin
Who has moved on? You? Good for you. But most of us haven't forgotten it. Many people, some of whom have posted in this thread, haven't forgiven what happened and, as such, their trust of otherwiki is tainted.
Yes, it's in the past, but there's no reason for anyone to accept or forgive it. Acceptance isn't necessary, and frankly, isn't warranted. We're not sitting here in a dark corner, brooding, planning our revenge and raising our fist to curse them every night before bed. They're not constantly in the backs of our minds making it hard for us to get on with our lives. It's not an issue of "moving on", it's an issue of knowing what they're capable of, what they've done, and it having an effect on our personal judgments about them as a result.
It's like Bear-Stearns coming back and saying "Hay guyz, wanna invest with us again?" If we choose not to because of what happened before, is it because we were obsessed and brooding about it and have deep-seated anger that we just need to get over, or is it because we just simply don't trust them?