Chris Brown - Forever is an obvious choice... surprised nobody beat me to it.
tried and true
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrfaDUlLt0U
I've been the DJ at 2 friends weddings. Sort of, i just compiled songs and autoplayed on an Ipod for one of the weddings. Lol. Most of my friends listen to rnb, rap & hip-hop. Hopefully that's the type of music your guests are into. I added some classic for a mixture for everyone. Lol.
Here are some slow songs :
K-Ci & JoJo - All My Life
K-Ci & JoJo - Tell Me It's Real
50 cent - in da club
2pac - 2pac california love
Justin Timberlake - Sexy Back <--- chicks love this
CCR - Bad Moon Rising
Michael Jackson - Billie jean
Michael Jackson - Rock With You
Michael Jackson - Thriller
I could go on forever but those are a few. O and for the love of god don't play the chicken song. Somehow being a bad dancer works for white people.
Find something that means something to both of you.
Barring that, I always liked Ms. Holliday. The Very Thought of You.
check out Vitamin String Quartet they do normal songs and band like rise against,cold play and like ac/dc lol its pretty cool I looked for some of there stuff for my wedding
I don't know how but I convinced my wife to have our first song be "Eyes on Me" by Faye Wong. LOL I'm such a nerd. . .
Endless Love?
And in a few years we'll see this guy posting for divorce lawyer advice.
Lone Star - Amazed, seems like a very good hybrid of rock/country.
My gf wanted this, but one iof our friends had it, so she aint feeling it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kJyJwbAa1i8
Failing that, Truly Madly Deeply by savage garden.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ye2Q1SxeLaE
Candy Shop by the Dan Band. Fuckin' do it.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19EHm5TRi1g
Either that or this.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=srnMMalaeVU
War, from Rocky 4. No better way to introduce the bride, at least.
electric slide. idiots.
The Andrea Bocelli(sp) song from the end of Step Brothers, with appropriate boats and hos commentary.
Kingdom come by Coldplay