Speaking of prostate, has anyone here ever used a vibrator for it? I'm thinking about buying one if it's as great as i hear it is.
For OP:
Seriously, start with toys/fingers with lube and work your way up to something that matches your cock size if she's never done anal before.
Then and only then should you be going at it with your own dick. My current GF enjoys anal- she's done it enough that she's used to taking me back there without trouble, long as she relaxes. Besides, while you're working your way up, you're also able to DP her between toy in ass and you in pussy, and that's definitely a positive for any woman who enjoys anal. The reverse applies with anal sex and the toy working her from the other side- just don't go back and forth. One or the other for each. Clean the toy religiously afterwards. Infection is not fun.
DON'T try surprising her with butt sex. Ever. Unless you hate her, in which case it's one of the cruelest things you can do.
It's possible. I've read that dicking through such a tight hole tears micro fibers or some shit leaving the skin open even though it doesn't appear to be. I already have a weak urethra and prostate problems so I just don't even give a fuck anymore, UTI for male is kinda rare but other shit could happen too. Cleaning afterwards is important.
Ass to mouth anyone?
my one time experience was not pleasant, we probably did it all wrong but she was really fucking annoying during it and kept whining and crying. it was all her idea too. after that, i've decided to never try it again
I couldn't help but die laughing at the accuracy of this statement. The only religious chick I ever dated was also the biggest freak I've ever fucked.It’s just a matter of finding that chick cool enough to let them get away with it. Here’s a secret—look for the religious girls.
She worked at her church, went there for every single stupid little thing they did, tried to convert me (leeeeawl) etc. All in all she put up a great front. This was also the first, and only, girl I've ever had say "fuck me in the ass." Wish I could have seen my face when she said that, lol. I obliged whenever she asked for it, though I've never really been fond of it. Too much work imo. Gimme a moist hole, thrust, repeat. Not all this prep or clean up work.
lol so there is alot of bad info here, and some good stuff. Lots of lube, use finger(s)/toys to work your way up and go slow is a must. The one thing that hasn't been emphasized here is give the clit some love~ Best way to make her relax the sphincter (lol sphincter) and to lessen/distract from the pain of entry is to make her feel great pleasure elsewhere. So give her a reach around or break out her favorite vibrator~
The best sex i ever had was anal. If done right, women freaking love it.
I've found that firm, circular massage around the perimeter is the way to go. It loosens me up without taking away the fun of the initial insertion.
When I say firm, I mean firm. Work from gentle to firm, sure, but give it a nice massage and it relaxes all by itself (at least my body, anyway, ymmv.)
Just make her douche her ass if you're worried about the poop factor. Good bottoms always make sure to "clean house" before inviting guests over.