It depends on the calibre of other gear you have and can obtain. Compared to old (75-cap) gear full perle set (hurf durf) is slightly better barring a dusk gloves +1/homam/homam set, however if you need a store TP body or something like that then the homam pieces are still good until you can get your hands on stuff like timarli dastanas and ace's hose, which take some work to obtain (I think? Being in an empty linkshell is badtimes.)
Ideal DRK setup (visible slots) is currently something like AF3+2 head/Timarli Dastanas/Ace's hose/Ace's Sabaton's (if you need STP) or Homam feet (if you don't).
There is a haste body but I don't think it's been found, so old bodies are still decent, I think.
100% true. XP rate gradually builds up to proportions that old style merit parties could only dream of, it doesn't even require particularly competent players.
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