I have the exact same laptop and get the "FFXIV has stopped working" error. Same thing happened with the benchmark and open beta installer.
Did you initially have no issues running the game, or updater? If so, what did you do to fix the problem? I'm seeing many people with the same issues on another board, mainly ATI card users. Some claim downloading 10.8 catalyst drivers. Did you uninstall the old drivers and then do this? Have you had no errors while playing the game since you made this post? My apologies for the influx of questions. Thanks in advance.
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