BG Sex Advice; Condoms

[wagon]

how do you guys persuade your gf to switch to pills? After years of masturbation, I am having trouble feeling anything with a condom on. There have been a couple times that I couldnt finish after she came no matter how hard (pun intended) I tried.

[BadKarma]

If you cant feel anything with a condom on, go see a doctor cuz your cock be dead.



Also, most popular thread of ever made on BG /singlemanlytear

[wagon]

What i meant is that the sensation is just too dull with a condom on.

[Roranora]

Uh.. are normal, sane women who can reliably and regularly take birth control really so rare? Yeahyeahyeah 99% shit, whatever, birth control works. And if you are the statistically unlucky, that's what abortions are for, right? Raw dog + load inside, thanks.

[Tekki]

protip from my old roomate and its worked wonders since. make her want it...

my last relationship i gave her what she wanted, and made it so she couldn't go without sex as much as much as i couldn't. then i told her that if we were going to stay sexually active like this, i want her on the pill. she was hesitant, so i cut her off. she saw the doctor the same week.

now, thats the immature way of doing it and ive since grown into a more mature relationship with my current gf where we talk about everything. she wants me to be happy, i want her to be happy, so we are taking our time and finding the best birth control options for us. shes going the pill route but we are going to make sure it doesnt fuck with her hormones before settling on the option. i cant do condoms, she might not be able to do the pill neither of us like spermicide lube, we'll look until we find something thats best for us.

honestly, if it wasn't so damn expensive id get vesectimy. i've never wanted kids and still don't. its always reversable, but this is a cost prohibitive method from what i understand.

[Korietsu]

Think about an IUD Tekki.

[Yabby]

honestly, if it wasn't so damn expensive id get vesectimy. i've never wanted kids and still don't. its always reversable, but this is a cost prohibitive method from what i understand.

I talked with my woman about this before, because its easier, cheaper, and safer than having her shit done. Only problem with vasectomy is the high % (By my standards anyways) of it revering naturally. By the end of it both of us felt it was retarded to get something done not knowing it could fix itself at any time. I just couldn't enjoy myself thinking.... what if... every time we did it lol.

[Abandon]

If you cant feel anything with a condom on, go see a doctor cuz your cock be dead.



Also, most popular thread of ever made on BG /singlemanlytear

both of my pussy-eating threads beg to differ.

I prefer raw, but some circumstances call for desperate measures.. that, or they just go hand-in-hand with the particular occasion (hi2u Amsterdam's Red Light District) Those ice and fire ones are nice, but i usually roll with whatever i can get to fit, heh. only had 2 bust, but it was all good, i busted on her in response.

[Abandon]

cannot believe i was so late on a sex-related topic; i'm slippin.

[kuronosan]

Haha... lube... haha... slippin. Haha... Abandon.

[Abandon]

i try. lol

[Tekki]

Think about an IUD Tekki.

plan on it, if the pill doesnt work. my only problem with that is my friend telling me hers recently fell out and they had no clue how long it was gone and where it went....

[Conrad]

Also, you could talk your girlfriend into getting an IUD. Very effective form a birth control. I really like mine because it doesn't involve any hormonal birth control, which always messes with my system.

How do the non-hormonal IUDs work? My girlfriend can't take birth control because her hormones fuck her up too much, but she's considering getting one so I don't have to use a condom every time. She did mention in researching them that the non-hormonal ones would cause her periods to be exponentially worse, is there any truth to that?

[Kyreth]

I am going 7 years without a condom 95% of the time (batting at least 2-3 times a week first 4 years, 5+ for two years, then married and am back at 1/week), only go for the condom when i want to ejaculate inside. When i do use a condom i really like Trojan Ultra Ribbed. Those things fit better than the cheap brands and have never had one break in 2 years that i found this style (I like my sex rough so strong is needed).
Oh, and no babies.

I'm all for those. At the least, Trojans with a tip + spermicidal lube, and ribbed is worth it for some. Try em, see if they're good for her, cause they won't do you any harm.

[Kyreth]

Anal sex.

Once you go in the back, you'll never go bac- er, wait.

*headasplode*

[Kyreth]

how do you guys persuade your gf to switch to pills? After years of masturbation, I am having trouble feeling anything with a condom on. There have been a couple times that I couldnt finish after she came no matter how hard (pun intended) I tried.

Get her off plenty first, find alternatives.

Having a girlfriend who likes titty-sex/orally getting you off = win.

[Talus]

I'd second IUDs. I really don't understand why more women don't get them. So they don't want to get on the pill because of the possible side effects? Ok. Get an IUD. Teach your boyfriend how to see the strings so he can be sure it's still in place.

My gf is a resident in ob/gyn, and she has an IUD... so maybe I'm biased. When we first got together we used condoms, had the talk one day about ditching them, and we both got tested for HIV/AIDS/STIs, when we came back clean, we ditched the condoms and now rely on her IUD. The only thing that's changed is we're never taken out of the moment finding a condom, unwrapping it and putting it on, and we can be a little more spontaneous.

[aduidarnenye]

How do the non-hormonal IUDs work? My girlfriend can't take birth control because her hormones fuck her up too much, but she's considering getting one so I don't have to use a condom every time. She did mention in researching them that the non-hormonal ones would cause her periods to be exponentially worse, is there any truth to that?

Any IUD is going to mess up your menstruation for a few months. When I got mine I bled like a stuck pig for almost a week, and then again at my first period. I still get off-period bleeding from time to time.

The IUD I have has a very low dosage hormone in it. I generally can't deal with hormonal birth control; they make me fat and crazy. It took a long time to convince me to even try the low dosage one but I've not had any issues with it. The copper non-hormonal IUD does make you have stronger, more painful periods, and that was what convinced me to try the low dose one (which makes periods lighter after a couple of months).

At worst, you can always remove it if you don't like it, except it cost $300 and that kinda sucks.

[Milkster]

I totally know now why there are so many people with STDs...

[Correction]

I totally know now why there are so many people with STDs...

Black people?