Do I tell or Do I not tell? (Relationship shit.)

[Odon]

First off, whoever the fuck called it in that April fools thread that I would get back with my ex fiancee. Fuck you. I hate you for being right.

Basically me and my ex-fiancee broke up a year ago, And in that time she 'fell in love' with another guy. Granted this other guy was using her as the girl on the side. He was in a 'committed' relationship with another girl and my ex knew about it and let it happen for a while, until she finally wised up and ended it even tho she still 'loves him'. He, on the other hand absolutely hates her, regrets everything he did with her and never wants to talk to her again and has not done so since they broke up.

I've never stopped loving her even after the shit shes pulled. (cheating, abusing, etc.) I'm a bitch obviously, but I'm sure some people can relate how hard it is to shake someone you love. We've never stopped talking except for the couple of months while she was involved with that guy over last summer. (He forbid her to talk to me. Fucked up I know.) But after he was gone it was back to talking everyday.


She got home from college, and we didn't see each other right away.. She was hesitant because she knew what would happen when we did. So I saw her for the first time in person in over a year a couple weeks ago, and we've been hooking up but never really going past oral/fingering because I was worried it would overwhelm he with more problems and stress (Her parents are going through a rough divorce, on top of the fact shes 'in love with that guy.

Last night it finally went there, we made love. I kept asking and making sure it's really what she wanted and she kept saying yes and that it was okay. So we have some AMAZING sex. Cuddle for a bit and then she went home. I asked her to call me when she got home, she said she would.

An hour goes by and I get a little worried because the weather was pretty bad last night.

So I text her saying 'Call me?'
She replies back 'I'm sorry. I feel weird.'
I say 'What's wrong?'
She texts back 'All of this. It's wrong. It's too much."
I ask her to call me so we can talk about this.
But she stops responding so I stop texting. I figured she needs some space
right now and as much as I've wanted to call or text her today I haven't.
I think space is something she needs right now, as I don't want to come off as clingy.


The problem.
Tonight some 2 girls I went to high school with came over I haven't seen them in over a year so it was a pleasant surprise since I was in such a bummed mood. So we're talking and catching up, when one of them notices the bite marks/hickeys on my neck and makes a comment. My ex gets brought up since they know I'm still hung up on her and some how the guy she's in love with gets brought up. One of the girls who is over is best friends with my ex's little sister and she lets it slip that:

The guy my ex is in love with is actively trying to fuck my ex's little sister. He's done this in the past (before my ex and him got involved)

So.. What do I do? Do I try and make contact with her, even tho she probably needs space right now due to last night. Or do I try and call or text and let her know what the fuck hes trying to do. I feel like if I try telling her this, I'm going to come off like an asshole and she might think I'm just trying to start shit. But there is a TON of evidence to support this that she knows about. Her sister also knows what hes doing, but she obviously has not told her.


What the fuck do I do? I still want her. I have no idea how to deal with my problem with her, let alone let this slip. Granted I would beat the shit out of the guy if he actually did hook up with my ex's sister again.

Help.

[Darus Grey]

Man up and stop being a bitch.

Edit: Why is this your problem again? Protip: It isn't.

Classic White Knight Syndrome.

[Odon]

I'll keep that in mind.

[Mr. Flippy]

http://i689.photobucket.com/albums/v...g?t=1244874238

[SubzeroDiabolos]

What the fuck?

Love is overrated, gitter dun.

EDIT for the lulz: Tonight for the first time of my life I had sex but didn't cum. Ditch? At least this way, I don't have to worry about the ovaries dying.

[Xiona]

seriously? do you really need advice? are you just looking for validation so you can continue down the shit stream you jumped into? let her go, let her get screwed over, find a new girl and finally realize life does go on...

unless you like drama, then i would suggest setting it up a meeting with your ex and the guy she loves with her under the impression that he wants her back. but instead of that being true have her walk in to find the dude on a date with the sister.

she will be so distressed that she will cry on your shoulder, get weak in the knees and immediately collapse to give you head

[MarkM.]

Stick it in her pooper and be done with her. Then take a page from the guy she shit on you for, and stick it in her little sister's pooper (barring she is legal, etc.) take pictures, and send it to her.

[BerenTebogo]

Post pics of the dude fucking the little sister on here. It's the only right answer.

[Odon]

I already have fucked her sister, prior to dating her. So don't worry about that.

[MarkM.]

I already have fucked her sister, prior to dating her. So don't worry about that.

Pics or it didn't happen.

[Odon]

Sorry, no pics were taken.

[SubzeroDiabolos]

pshhhhh get the fuck out then.

[thestalkmore]

You're such a fucking twat.

[The Blackrose]

You can do it, man! Bitches love confid... Wait.

Seeing as you stuck it in her sister already, you're pretty much onto phase two: GTFO. Unless you can pull off what Sath is suggesting.

[Olbohn]

Man up and stop being a bitch.

Seriously, a woman cheats on you and you still cling to her?

You tell your ex what you know, and like you said because do you really want to feel responsible when shit goes down and she is heartbroken? Don't spend fucking hours/days/weeks trying to investigate this shit, just tell her what you know and be done with it. Like you said, you give space afterwards.

Stay in touch, after a few days/weeks/year, when she realizes what the fuck she been doing neglecting you over him all this time over some douchebag that screwed her over. She'll come running back to you np.

Really, stop being a bitch and man up. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so stop wasting your time trying to catch that one fish, unless your bait is shitty as fuck and can only attract one (if u know what i mean).

[Warudo Ecksu]

bitches b crazy. the moment sum1 cheats on u, dump their ass and get them out of your life. i told u this already.

stop being a bitch

[Velgadess]

Seriously, a woman cheats on you and you still cling to her?

You tell your ex what you know, and like you said because do you really want to feel responsible when shit goes down and she is heartbroken? Don't spend fucking hours/days/weeks trying to investigate this shit, just tell her what you know and be done with it. Like you said, you give space afterwards.Stay in touch, after a few days/weeks/year, when she realizes what the fuck she been doing neglecting you over him all this time over some douchebag that screwed her over. She'll come running back to you np.

Really, stop being a bitch and man up. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so stop wasting your time trying to catch that one fish, unless your bait is shitty as fuck and can only attract one (if u know what i mean).

people fuck up. I forgive once but more than that, hell no. if it's really bugging you, tell her. then leave it at that. dont talk or contact her. if she comes crying to you, great. listen but dont fall again. move on.

[Ruiner]

So you can fuck her sister but this guy can't?

[Odon]

So you can fuck her sister but this guy can't?

I slept with her sister before dating her.

He slept with her sister before getting involved with her.

He's trying to sleep with her sister again. She's 'in love with him.' This will break her heart even more if it happens.

This is the problem.

[Tomiko]

So you can fuck her sister but this guy can't?

The man has a point.

Classic case of Bitch Dependency Syndrome. - "It can seriously disrupt your health, your social life and even your money."

http://api.ning.com/files/8po9Dv2J3U..._Slickback.jpg

My prescription to remedy the situation: Have a threesome with your Ex and her sister then gtfo and move on with your life.