So I got my girlfriend to watch anime with me the other night and I noticed something interesting. A lot of the gestures/idiosyncrasies that are standard and commonplace in anime and also japanese media in general are taken forby people who are familiar to it in the West.
Anime is very formulaic, take the stock archetype characters that we're all familiar with for example. The main character; if a boy, is usually wide-eyed, brash,adventerous, though sometimes naive with usually some hidden/suppressed power and although weak usually compensates with his will or determination. This archetype makes sense because we can all relate to the underdog aspect. Now this is where it gets weird. I was watching Bleach with my girl and she found it odd that some characters when discussing with another character, do so with either their eyes closed, back turned or a combination of both. She was like "why doesn't that guy face the other when he speaks". I tried to explain it means they're confident/arrogant/badass but she didn't understand. It's true in western culture, in our movies or cartoons, villains or anti-heroes never talk to those weaker than them with closed eyes or turned backs yet any american who typically watches anime 'gets it'. This is true for 90% of anime.
Why is it that both our cultures differ. If anyone is a native of Japan can you clarify? Do badasses or people who are evil talk to others with their eyes closed or turned back? In the west that's considered rude or weird but in Japan or in anime at least it seems to be cool. Furthermore characters like Byakuya from bleach or Legato from Trigun or even Sephiroth from Final Fantasy all portray a rather weak and effeminate character yet they're immensely powerful. Is it common in Japan for those with a lot of power to appear frail,weak and effimineate? In the west(and also in reality) physical strength is determined by muscle density(even Bruce Lee was ripped, he just wasn't bulky like a body builder.)
Another thing that struck my girlfriend as odd is when Byakuya was fighting he was blocking effortlessly and always had an expression of tiredness/boredom/about to fall asleep. This is obviously unreal as no one could maintain that kind of composure in a real fight, but where did the idea of someone being that competent come from? Nobody in real life can fight that effortlessly without breaking a sweat or even moving a muscle in your face. It makes sense to people who watch anime because it's cool, but try to imagine it from an outside perspective where did anime writers get the idea make characters like that. It's not even just bleach it's most anime or movies depict a character usually with silver hair(side note where did japanese people get the idea of a cold hearted silver haired elite badass character? nobody in japanese history or lore had silver hair!). These people usually are epic, elite, weild powers or fight with ease and always speak softly,confidently and never seem surprised,shocked or astonished at anything. And if they are it's always a subtle flintch of their eye followed by a "...interesting."
It was just interesting seeing anime from an outside person's perspective. A lot of the gestures make sense for people who are used to it, but if you break it down I don't see where they could have arose from. It's like anime combines minimum effort with maximum effect. Characters who move effortlessly or weakly make massive explosions or kill hoardes of enemies. That concept doesn't exist in western culture, so where does the seed of that imagination come from, japanese mythology/stories?
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by people who are familiar to it in the West.

