Am I A Faggot?

[LinktheDeme]

Ryko and spam people aside...

So I'm sure people remember a few months ago I posted about my 'problems,' and before that I had posted about buying a friend a ps3.. same girl... roll with me on this..

Going to try and make this as unbias as possible:

So I had a friend for two years who I met in school. As time went on I kind of devolved a pretty serious crush on her. I'm the type of person that really enjoys buying gifts for people [type 2 personality, psych people.]. Even people I dislike, I'll buy them flowers just to make their day better. Long story short, I ended up paying for this girls stuff a lot. I'd take her to dinner and what not at first, and she enjoyed it as far as I could tell. I bought her small gifts here and there, a stuffed animal, etc.

Then Christmas came around. She had been constantly talking about how she wanted a ps3. I was at her house a lot and we had classes together which allowed me to be there for awhile. I decided I'd buy her a ps3 on the condition that I'd be able to play it and what not. She seemed to like it.

As time goes on, our relationship kind of steps up a little bit. She starts living at my house, I take her out to a nice dinner almost every night [She lived here 7 months, we ate at my house twice.] I paid every single bill in the house, never asked her for a dime, nothing.

Her and I started going on dates, things were going well, but she kind of kept the stance that she didn't want any serious relationship. I told her I was fine with that on the condition if she hooks up with anyone to just let me know. I wouldn't be upset, I just wanted to know where I stood in the relationship. She promised me that she'd let me know. If anything, I'd say our relationship was friends with benefits with the closest possible line to dating there can be. It was basically a super open relationship with the only clause being to tell me if she hooks up with someone else.

Then one day, she told me she was going to go see her dad and her dog and kind of squealed tires out of my house. I knew right away she was going somewhere. She had brought along a book that I had purchased for her and I knew she already had read it. I made a mental mark of "That was strange.."

Longer story short, this guy posts on facebook the next day on her wall about he really enjoyed the book, etc. I was like "What the fuck is this shit?" when she came home. She told me that she had lent it to her girlfriend and her girlfriend must have lent it to this guy. I seen right through that and immediately called her on her bullshit. She kept lying to me and I kept breaking it down every time she said something. Eventually she got frustrated and told me she did go over to this guys house and did sleep with him.

I was pissed. Not because she slept with him, but because she lied to me. Later I had found out that she has 'been' with 3 other guys. Her ex-boyfriend, some dude at a party she took a bath with, and now this guy.

I was pretty distraught. I loved this girl with all my heart and constantly tried to show her this. I was upset because I was honest about everything with her and only asked the slightest bit of honesty with me. It's not hard to say "Hey, this guy at this party.." etc. I was mad because I found out another way. This was a huge emotional investment and my trust was broken with her.

I told her I wanted her out of my life and she begged me to remain her friend. Literally on her hands and knees begging. I told her I'd try to work it out if she'd try to rebuild trust with me. Since then, she's basically spent every night at this guys house, only answers a few of my texts, went to dinner with me once in two weeks since this has happened and she couldn't even look at me.

So now here I am. The fact I gave her all this stuff has managed to put me a little in debt. The ps3 was purchased on a credit card with zero interest for a year, and I haven't managed to pay it off. I called her up and asked her to give it back to me. She's clearly upset, but so am I. I gave her basically everything I had on the condition of honesty and she couldn't keep her end of it. Am I a douche for wanting this back so I can pay off my credit card?

Also, is it wrong of me to be upset at her for sleeping with this guy? I mean, as much as I try not to let it bother me, it does. She basically used me while she had a fuck-buddy. Why would she hide this from me if not for using me?

I told her she could keep everything else I bought for her, clothes, etc, if she gives me the ps3 back and I'm not doing it out of malice, I just don't think its right I put myself in debt for someone that cant keep the truth straight....


What does BG think? Wall-o-text I'm aware, but I'm pretty upset.
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[Kytele]

murder is the only option




if you wanna go out hardmode, murder suicide.

[Kytele]

no seriously, find out when she's not there, jack the ps3 and then burn her clothes.

[Kiarax]

[LinktheDeme]

murder is the only option




if you wanna go out hardmode, murder suicide.

No. Over all the time I've known her, I spent $5k on her. I'm asking for $300 of it back. She can keep the rest. I dont care about anything else but this. I went in on a DSLR camera with her. That cost me $250. She bought me things too, to be honest. It was kind of mutual gift exchange with me spending far more. I didn't expect anything in return and the rest are gifts. But this one I feel like was a gift to both of us and she took advantage of me.

[Darus Grey]

[MF Perm tha Fineass]

what the fuck is up with bg dudes buying bitches ps3's who started this trend

[LinktheDeme]

I'm aware I'll get over it. There are billions of girls out there and I'm not going to get hung up on one. I just want to know if I made the right choice here.

[Kytele]

what the fuck is up with bg dudes buying bitches ps3's who started this trend

i learned the hard way when i bought my sis a ps3 for her birthday last year only for her to move the fuck out a few months later...FUCK BITCH YOU COULD HAVE PLAYED YOUR BOYFRIEND'S PS3 YOU SILLY CLOWN HOOKER.

[MF Perm tha Fineass]

just let it go man. money is dumbest shit to stress about and the more you fret about little shit the worse it gets and the more of an ass you look like.

go rent a bmw and put a friends plates on it and drop her off food stamp applications and drive off blasting "All About The Benjamins".

It's about psychological victories not monetary ones.

[LinktheDeme]

I just want to make this clear: I had had a convo the day before she left with her about this. I made her give me her word and be TOTALLY honest about our relationship. This was the DAY BEFORE she left. When she left, I knew something was up. I sent her a text saying I knew what was up and I wanted her out. I had no proof of that, I just knew by intuition something was up. She told me I was just being paranoid, etc etc, and she was being honest with me. This is while she's at this guys house. I texted this at around 11:30. They slept together at 12. Me kicking her out of my life basically had no effect on her. She immediately slept with him.

As a matter of fact, when she came her to beg me for forgiveness, she told me she had to leave my house because she had work the next day at 10:00 and she lives in Madison Heights, like.. an hour away from where I was living at the time. The next morning I do my usual check facebook thing and see that we had a mutual friend post "Hung out with Shannon and this guy named Alex." I sent him a message and asked what time she had hung out til. 3:00 AM. He said they got together right after she went and picked him up from lansing. She left my house, went to this guys house, picked him up, and then stayed out til 3:00 AM and the ONLY reason I knew is because of a mutual friend. I went ape shit on her and told her again to GTFO and she basically broke down on the phone and said her girlfriend went and picked them up and she tagged along and they picked him up somewhere closer to her house, some bullshit story. I dont know. I know I'm done with her but I just really want my shit back.

[Abandon]

the only correct response, lol

[Ohaigaiz]

8)

[Conrad]

everyone in this thread is trolled

[Abandon]

nah

[Conrad]

if you respond in any way, that means you were trolled apparently

i don't make the rules, i just follow them

[Krye]

Skirkle is sitting in his pitch black room insisting there's no light in the world cause he can't see it

Just cause you get trolled with every post you make doesn't we're as retarded as your dumbfuck lazy jewnog ass

[Conrad]

i'm at work

[Conrad]

it's a little cloudy out though

[Krye]

Skirkle what is your idea of happiness?