
Originally Posted by
Aksannyi
While I understand both sides of this issue, I dislike that people actively go out of their way to make fun of and/or mock someone who is genuinely offended by something, particularly with the "OMG I'M SO TRIGGERED" thing that I see ... well, everywhere. If someone is offended, there is absolutely no reason to go out of your way to offend them just for kicks.
1. Triggers:
Now I don't have to deal with things that trigger on places like an internet forum. I do have things that I can recognize as likely to lead me back into a depressive episode, but nothing that is automatically going to send me into a panic attack or something similar, so I don't know that that's like. I happen to believe that the actual frequency of people being legitimately triggered is probably not that high, but I also am not the person to judge what can cause someone severe emotional trauma, and making fun of someone for having words and/or images that are triggering is pretty rude.
There absolutely is the chance that some people use it wrongly, and that being "triggered" to them is just having to see a word they don't like. To be honest, sometimes some of the things people say on here really piss me off. I refrain from responding (most of the time) and try to ignore the threads, personally. But where some might consider that a trigger for anger/rage, I do not. That being said, if someone does have something legitimately triggering come up and they ask someone to stop saying and/or posting it, or if they ask for it to be put in a spoiler tag, and the person doesn't comply, then I'm going to say that's pretty rude. Honestly, I don't know what a panic attack is like, but I do have light anxiety and that's not fun. I can't imagine what a full-scale anxiety attack must be like, I really can't. I can't imagine that it would be a fun thing to endure. So if the mention of something like anal rape might trigger someone, I'll try to refrain from mentioning that when I'm in the presence of that person (not that it often comes up, but you get the idea).