LolAnotherWomansTopic

[Sefier]

Do woman have sex with men there not into?
This is excluding any sex w/ motives IE prostitution etc..

But I'd like to know, would your average woman have sex with a guy out of pitty?

And Hypothetically Speaking (LOL) if she has sex with me still, does this mean shes still into me? (said couple has been having problems for a while and said boyfriend feels shes only continuing the relationship out of pitty)

BTW THIS TOPIC DOES NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME ! ! !

[Lbelle]

I haven't, but I know alot of people that have gotten drunk and fucked guys they barely know. It's not uncommon especially on a college campus/ they're young. No one that I know has ever given a guy a pity fuck though...

I'm not a sex expert. I've only done it a handful of times with one guy but sex doesn't have to equal love, it is just sex. I think people have a hard time grasping that sometimes.

[Elcura]

I dunno about pity sex, but pity orgasms (aka la fake) seem plausible enough. I don't think anyone is stupid enough to stay with something because of just pity.

Like going to a couple counseller and when he asks her what she likes most about him she says "Well, I pity him. That's all."

[Kaliden]

I haven't, but I know alot of people that have gotten drunk and fucked guys they barely know. It's not uncommon especially on a college campus/ they're young. No one that I know has ever given a guy a pity fuck though...

I'm not a sex expert. I've only done it a handful of times with one guy but sex doesn't have to equal love, it is just sex. I think people have a hard time grasping that sometimes.

Yeah, sex itself is just a biological act. People classify it as "making love" when it's someone they care about. And as far as females and loveless sex goes I'm sure it happens, they have raging hormones just like guys.

[XxSlusherxx]

In my experence there are quite a few girls out there who completely fail at breaking up. they are so afaraid of being single they stay in completly hopeless relatonships and don't dump the guy until they have someone to dump him for.

[finale23]

In my experence there are quite a few girls out there who completely fail at breaking up. they are so afaraid of being single they stay in completly hopeless relatonships and don't dump the guy until they have someone to dump him for.

so true. i know a few girls who stick with their 3year+ bf because they are so used to the status quo that they depend on it and that they build their daily routine around the relationship, even though there is no spark, no romance, no love, even more ridiculously, one of those dudes confessed to me that he would cheat in a heart beat if he were ever given the chance.

i also know people who fucked their bf upon breakup, i guess that counts as a pity fuck?

[Devek]

I'd rather go whack off than receive a pity fuck.

[Iono]

When my mom died I got "comfort sex" from girls around me, dunno if that's the same as pity sex.

[Kuya]

I'm not a sex expert. I've only done it a handful of times with one guy but sex doesn't have to equal love, it is just sex. I think people have a hard time grasping that sometimes.

OMG, a woman who actually understands this, you are now my favorite female poster.

[Devek]

Sex isn't a big deal.

Unwanted children and STDs are no big deal.

EDIT: The occasional rape charges are not a big deal either.

[Haily]

1. yes

2. yes

3. no

[LLK]

Any guy can get any chick any day of the week.

Ok not "ANY" guy, but even your most average guy can pull a hottie and bang her if he has enough confidence (aka: game).

I dunno about pity fucks per se, but pretty much any guy can get with any girl for any reason whatsoever.

[tyven]

LLK said

Any guy can get any chick any day of the week.

Ok not "ANY" guy, but even your most average guy can pull a hottie and bang her if he has enough confidence (aka: game).

I dunno about pity fucks per se, but pretty much any guy can get with any girl for any reason whatsoever.

while generally i would agree with that, i have found ever since graduating college a lot of girls sort of grow out of that state of mind and it takes a lot more than confidence and one liners to get into their pants.

[LLK]

LLK said

Any guy can get any chick any day of the week.

Ok not "ANY" guy, but even your most average guy can pull a hottie and bang her if he has enough confidence (aka: game).

I dunno about pity fucks per se, but pretty much any guy can get with any girl for any reason whatsoever.

while generally i would agree with that, i have found ever since graduating college a lot of girls sort of grow out of that state of mind and it takes a lot more than confidence and one liners to get into their pants.

I never really go for the one liners and atleast at the bars / clubs around here the general principle holds true.

It's all about your "aura" and that is something that can't be faked. If you have extreme confindence when you approach someone they will immediately be able to tell. And mostly that is what will get you women. It doesn't matter what you say "other then I RAPE TEH CHICKENZ" most chicks will dig it if you carry yourself well.

Just think of them as a pack of wolves. You can either strut in all confidend you won't get killed. Or you can let them pick you apart.

That or just get them extremely drunk.. that tends to work too.

[archibaldcrane]

LLK said

Any guy can get any chick any day of the week.

Ok not "ANY" guy, but even your most average guy can pull a hottie and bang her if he has enough confidence (aka: game).

I dunno about pity fucks per se, but pretty much any guy can get with any girl for any reason whatsoever.

while generally i would agree with that, i have found ever since graduating college a lot of girls sort of grow out of that state of mind and it takes a lot more than confidence and one liners to get into their pants.

I've found the exact opposite to be true - I had a hard time getting girls in college, but since then it's been pretty easy. I'm more of a social/work dater, not someone who picks up girls in bars though.

I've also found that the vast, vast majority of the time, no matter how much a woman says "no, it's cool that we're having sex but aren't really serious" or "it's fine that you're dating other people too, so am I" they're just lying. They aren't trying to lie, but I'm getting jaded to the point where I don't believe women anymore when they try to pretend that "it's cool" that they're having sex but not in a committed relationship with me.

Pity sex happens, and might be a rare exception to that rule, but it's not a recurring thing. If a girl keeps sleeping with you, there's something about you (could be anything - from she needs your abuse or she's otherwise bored to you're great in bed or she loves you) that keeps her around.

[Zigma]

woman like sex just as much as men do.

[Ddz]

woman like sex just as much as men do.

QFT but in reality if we like it too much we're 'sluts'. A guy will say anything and do anything to get into your pants on the first date; god help you if you give it up too, because right after they blow their load they think you're a slut. The longer you wait to fuck a guy, the better and the less you will crave a serious relationship. I personally like to wait a little while before I jump in the sack, and I would never bang someone out of pity, or anyone I wasn't into. While it may "just be sex", it's still a form of affection I only like to give to someone who is committed to me, and it's something I reserve just for him. Whether you admit it or not, as a woman, certain hormones are released during and after sex that create emotional bonds and feelings of security/defense. It's just how we're wired.

[Brimah]

Maybe I'm just a very odd guy... but I would never just want to sleep with someone and thats it... Sex is just sex, but it means something. As lame as a comparison as it is, a flower is just a flower, but giving it to a girl means a bit more than it just being a flower.

I guess I am just not someone that would ever want to take advantage of another person for my own pleasure.

[Jefe]

Maybe I'm just a very odd guy... but I would never just want to sleep with someone and thats it... Sex is just sex, but it means something. As lame as a comparison as it is, a flower is just a flower, but giving it to a girl means a bit more than it just being a flower.

I guess I am just not someone that would ever want to take advantage of another person for my own pleasure.

Yar, I think the same. My friends screw girls without any consideration, and frankly see them as nothing but objects, and maybe is mutual. I don't have the nerve to do that (damn you conscience, damn you!!!). I don't see sex as simply a 'biological act,' (please lol), but as cheesy as it might sound, it's one significant way to express one's love to the other person. Who knows, maybe that's how we were raised. Anyhoo, I guess we do w/e makes us happy, I know I am :wink:

[Devek]

That is one of the things that separates us from the animals, Meteora.