Ok I am looking to buy my first house (yay) and I'm trying REALLY hard not to make some huge mistake. Not really sure who to go to for assistance so you guys get the honors. Here's a little background:
I'm 25 Years Old, still living with parents, and starting my 4th year at a really good job where I've moved up the ladder pretty damn fast. My credit is OK (only real purchase on credit was my car, which I haven't missed a payment on). I only have a degree in dropping out of college after 1 semester (just hated the school and didn't know what I was even doing there), but have always had a really strong work ethic, and I'm a fast learner. Started my current job in the bottom rung of tech support, quickly moved up to senior tech/adviser. Decided I wanted to go the R&D route, so I taught myself SQL > HTML > PHP > Java; learning C, jquery... etc.. I'm now 9 months into R&D at the company, I'm doing well, making a lot of personal progress and business is REALLY good right now. My co-workers are all awesome and understanding, and willing to pass on the knowledge.
Work is about 45 mins from home. I've considered looking for an apartment, but I keep coming to the conclusion that it's money down the drain. Looking around the area, there's a LOT of nice looking houses under 250k, which is reasonable given my salary. So here's where I really need to start digging in and deciding on a direction. Anyone with any personal experience on the subject or with some solid advice would be a HUGE help and greatly appreciated.
1. If I can afford it, should I out-do myself?
I'm currently single, and don't plan on moving in with anyone else. If I can snag an extra bedroom/bath for another 10-20k, is it worth it? I'm in a situation where I'm looking to settle in for the long haul. I'm not against having kids and raising a family some day, so having some extra room would be a good thing, right? Most places available are 2 Bed/Bath anyway, but I've found some 3bed/2bath or +office/den for not much more.
2. Fixeruppers
My brother is an electrician, with friends in plumming, masonry, landscaping, tilework etcetcetc. Dad has a long of experience in home remodeling and maintenance. I'm down to put in the work for something like this (in reality, I always wanted to do this as a hobby, but got off track somewhere; probably when the economy too a huge shit). How bad can these things get? I'm under the assumption that I can get royally fucked if I'm not super careful. I also have a buddy with parents who do this shit for a living, that could give me some help If i went in this direction. Instinct however, is telling me this is a bad idea for a first house...
3. Modular Homes... should I avoid these?
There's a few of these that I've seen for, at least what I assume to be, pretty damn cheap (100k give or take). I started doing some research, but can't find anything really negative about them. Everything I've seen has been really nice, but having them considered along the same vein as a "mobile home" put a bit of a damper on things. I can't shake the feeling that a strong wind is going to leave me with 3/4 walls, or that it's basically going to feel like a trailer once i get inside.
4. Condos/Rent-to-Own.
A good friend of mine is in one of these with his fiance and their daughter. Smart guy, hard-worker and they both make good money, and seem to be really happy with it. When I mentioned this to my boss (who is also helping me with this whole process) he immediately shot down the idea, stating it's a huge loss in the end. Is this true?
5. Should I really even bother?
I'm only just starting my 4th year at this place, which really isn't a long time at all. I'm confident in my abilities, and I'm confident I'll be there for the long haul, but you can never REALLY know what's going to happen. For good reasons, an apartment seems to be the go-to thing to do for a lot of people, but I hate the idea of throwing away the money on something that is in no way really mine in the end. The area I'm looking at is really nice, so I don't think the location will have a groundbreaking effect on whether I go house or apartment.
I'm not looking to make a final decision like... tomorrow, but I need to start sooner rather than later. I'm not dead-set on buying a house, but I'm strongly leaning in that direction. Any advice would be appreciated.![]()
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