Most definitely looks like the 16 pin connector for diagnostics via apple device.
Radio Interface for the iPod. look behind the radio, either directly on it will be a pin header that will fit perfect (or it might be from the previous radio).
for future reference anything that would plug into ODB-II would be male and look something like this
http://img.dxcdn.com/productimages/sku_41925_2.jpg
What Tizoc said- it's an standard 30pin to stereo accessory adapter
likely will not work with lolLightning