Couple on Bahamut looking for EGShell, willing to transfer

[Mommie2Ethan]

My husband and I are looking for an endgame shell with limbus and dyna access at the very least, can have more events. We do not want a too strict shell, meaning that occaisonally if we choose not to go to an event we don't want to be bullied or harassed. We are dedicated members, but we will not tollerate being yelled at for taking a night off every once in a while to level.

I have northlands dyna access, working on other missions, and have 75whm, rdm, dnc, and brd, with mnk coming up next.

He has 75 rng , whm, dnc, with mnk coming up next. He also has COP completed, WoTG completed, etc.

We are trying to find an ls with events starting at around 6pmest, with a very big emphasis of starting ON TIME or heavily penalizing latecomers (ie can't lot next run type of thing). One of the big reasons he is leaving his current ls on Bahamut is because they never start limbus till almost 11pm meaning he has to miss it because he has to work the next day...and sometimes the reason it's late like that is the sacks thinking it's funny to arrive late to an event.Looking for events to start around 6pmest.

If you think you have an EG shell that would be a fit for both of us, please email me at [email protected] so we can take a look at the site and exchange any necessary information.

Our server move isn't up until the first week of June, so we'd like to have something lined up by then, thanks.

[Eanae]

So you want a ls to be strict on being on time, but want to be able to skip with no penalty? Sounds like a bunch of hypocrites to be honest...

[isladar]

Moved to the correct forum.

[Mommie2Ethan]

Moved to the correct forum.

actually according to the title of the forum it was posted in, it was correct, ty, as it was an app,

[Mommie2Ethan]

So you want a ls to be strict on being on time, but want to be able to skip with no penalty? Sounds like a bunch of hypocrites to be honest...

you are entitled to YOUR opinion, but taking one night off a month to do something with my husband is not asking too much, and if you THINK it is then you and your ls are not a fit for us, goodbye

[BadKarma]

Most if not all linkshells will not take you if you are looking to skip with no penalty, in a dynamis/limbus shell you will probably have 3 or 4 days free anyway. Also for the being yelled at part, if you suck you will get yelled at, if not you wont.

[Eanae]

The part that gets me the most is they're asking for strict attendance policies, but special treatment at the same time.

[jimbobsonofgod]

Is it better to be late, or to not show up at all, which would more likely to incur a bigger penalty?

While I do agree its nice to not show up to events once in awhile, I do find it funny that you want other people to be "punished for showing up late", but you already say in your App that you are not going to be a dedicated member, because dedicated members . . .

show up to runs.

[Furionstormrage]

So don't invite them to your LS?

(I know, I know, it sounds so simple)

[Sonomaa]

no shell starts on time, and you cant really punish people if they are a little late, traffic isnt always friendly, connections arent always happy. And skipping event days randomly is never going to work in my experience.

[Mafai]

most shells i have been in have at at minimum 1 free night for you to do what you want...

[jimbobsonofgod]

dynamis is 2 days a week
Limbus is 2 days a week
If you did both on separate days that still leaves 3 days a week where you can level your jobs then.

Then again my limbus group does runs on Christmas

[Mommie2Ethan]

no shell starts on time, and you cant really punish people if they are a little late, traffic isnt always friendly, connections arent always happy. And skipping event days randomly is never going to work in my experience.

notice i said coming at 11pm when gathertime was 9, that is not a "little late", and having a few random nights to myself has always worked in MY experience, sorry it has not in YOURS

[Mommie2Ethan]

Is it better to be late, or to not show up at all, which would more likely to incur a bigger penalty?

While I do agree its nice to not show up to events once in awhile, I do find it funny that you want other people to be "punished for showing up late", but you already say in your App that you are not going to be a dedicated member, because dedicated members . . .

show up to runs.

that is in fact not what i said at all, so i am not going to waste my time on someone who didn't bother to read, have a good night and goodbye to you

[Mommie2Ethan]

The part that gets me the most is they're asking for strict attendance policies, but special treatment at the same time.

special treatment is not asking for a day or two off, special treatment is having a gathertime of 9pm and not showing up till 11pm, goodbye to you

[isladar]

This one's a treasure.

[Mommie2Ethan]

Most if not all linkshells will not take you if you are looking to skip with no penalty, in a dynamis/limbus shell you will probably have 3 or 4 days free anyway. Also for the being yelled at part, if you suck you will get yelled at, if not you wont.

actually i never said i wouldn't be willing to give up a point, or a lot during a run, and being yelled at for "sucking" was not my concern, so i believe you need to reread the post, thankyou and goodbye to you

[Tempyst]

God husband and wife players are the worst

[isladar]

THANKYOU AND GOODBYE TO YOU

[Eanae]

I fully understand that sometimes you want quality time with your husband. But that's what movies, dinner, doing random things in random places are for. RL > Game, but Game is never > game. If you're online and there's an event, as a ls member (or leader) I expect my fellow ls mates to be there.