How do you make a girl admit that

**Ratatapa** · 2011-06-28 07:09

She cheated on you??

Quick Story, been out with this girl for almost 2 years ( will be 2 years in October)
Everything goes fine, then her ex comes back in the decoy We pass threw and blah blah we arrive like 3 weeks ago. He comes back again. I'm telling her to stop talkin to him and she said no he's my friend blah blah.

Time passes then i hear that she has been invited to his 25th bday, and she's going without me. At first i said (as stupid as i am) she doesn't want to bring me cuz she knows I hate him.

Anyway passes the night and since sunday I sense her more distant. She never comes to sleep before 1-2 AM and all that shit.

So I did a mistake and checked her MSN logs (No sign of talking to him but she talked to her sister for 3hours).

Search threw it and I learned that she slept with him Saturday (at the bday party)

Now I'm pissed for real and i'm sure that my couple is over. But I don't wanna tell her, I kinda wanna get revenge but I want her to admit her error and admit it.

What pisses me off is that when she left for that party I told her, if anything happened tell me, and she didn't so that's 2 strike for me. Getting cheated on and getting lied to.

tl.dr

How can I make my girlfriend admit that she lied and cheated on me with her ex saturday, without telling her I checked her MSN logs?

P.S I know this is useless but i'm hoping for honest answers.

**EternityEnd** · 2011-06-28 07:14

Dump her. Move on.

You're both pieces of shit. Her for cheating, you for going through her chat log. Clearly neither of you have the maturity or trust mandatory for a healthy relationship.

**Elcura** · 2011-06-28 07:17

What's going on with general these days?

Also, if you know then you know. Why does it matter if you can trick her into confessing? You know the answer already goddamn it. Your question should be what you do now that you know? And I'd gtfo.

**Siniroth** · 2011-06-28 07:17

Post pics etc

**Callisto** · 2011-06-28 07:21

hit her with a water bottle

aduidarnenye · 2011-06-28 07:22

Dump her. No point in continuing this for your own sake.

I thought that this was going to continue "How do you make a girl admit that....she wants anal sex" for some reason.

**grantlogan** · 2011-06-28 07:22

Rofl, like she was going to tell you, "Oh btw I fucked my ex at his bday pty." OF COURSE SHE LIED YOU DINGUS.

**Clash Perez** · 2011-06-28 07:24

Equating cheating on a significant other of two years with checking a chat log when something is obviously awry is pretty retarded.

It's not worth it to try to beguile her into admitting it. Don't waste any more time with her.

Sounds like you guys are living together, which sucks. If you're paying for the place, ask her where she wants you to send her shit.

**kuronosan** · 2011-06-28 07:24

Get her to admit it? Why? Just get rid of her and move on. Now you know she's a cheating tramp and that you can trust your instincts. Next time don't mill through her chat logs. I wouldn't even give a shit if she's sorry or not. Tell her it's over, don't give her a reason beyond "Sorry, I don't feel like we trust each other". Don't care if she yells, don't care if she cries, just tell her it's over and go find someone new.

Revenge is juvenile. At least in the way you want it.

Oh, and post pics, etc.

**Bluefrostie** · 2011-06-28 07:26

Tell her you read them. Relationships should be based on trust, and if you couldn't trust her hanging out with her ex, you have every right to go through her shit (reasonably).

**Krazy** · 2011-06-28 07:27

Tell her you found out Friday that you have HIV.

**Ratatapa** · 2011-06-28 07:27

No we are not living together due to some reasons (that her mom gives her dad money) She needs to stay at full time at her dad, but we cheat with the rules she lives with me 1 week on 2.

And why I asked her to tell me if something would happen?

Because i had faith in her. I know it's hard in 2011. But I believed her, and it makes me stupid yes.

Anyway gonna have to get a talk tonight

**Helm** · 2011-06-28 07:29

I'll agree with most of what was said here and just say it's probably not worth your time and just dump her. However, in the case that you decide to stir up some drama it'd probably make a good read, so best of luck with whatever you choose.

**shidobu** · 2011-06-28 07:33

Wow. Not to sound like a jerk but haven't you heard the best way to get under a woman skin is to ignore their asses?
Get all ur shit and leave or take all her shit to her moms house. Don't tell her why just do it and move on.
Then go win the lottery and hire a hitman. Go get yourself a 10/10 and ditch the bitch

**AoE** · 2011-06-28 07:37

Stop being a fucking bitch dude. She did what many people consider the mortal sin of a relationship and you're ego is still so huge that you want her to come and admit it to you? It's like you're trying to get her to apologize so you can find any excuse to stay with her.

Either get rid of her, record you fighting her ex-boyfriend and post it here, and stop making threads where you're probably not gonna take anyone's advice anyway.

**Ratatapa** · 2011-06-28 07:43

The advice is noted and the relationship will probably end soon.

Even though the relationship will end, I wanted to give her 1 last help and make her realize what she has done.

But I guess it's not used

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**Eaglestrike** · 2011-06-28 07:46

1) Ask to make a sex video and do anal.
2) If she says no, bring up you know she cheated, so do it to win you back.
3) Dump her anyway, give us pics/video.
4) SS facebook/e-mail drama rage and post here.

**aznmajiktaru** · 2011-06-28 07:53

What's the point really? You're contradicting yourself by saying you want revenge and then you say you want her to own up to her mistake, why? So she can come sob to you and tell you how stupid it was? Shit wasn't gonna fly the second you felt the need to go check on her messages. If you really wanted revenge there's a million and one ways to do it so either pick one and do it or just tell her to gtfo.

Also, pics

**shidobu** · 2011-06-28 07:53

Lol "1 last help"
Don't think that word means what you think it means
You aren't helping her. She's a whore and you got your feelings hurt, and you're trying to get some emotional rise outa her.
Till this backfires in your face and you find out shes been cheating for the entire time. Your asking for trouble.

**ZarakiKujata** · 2011-06-28 07:57

Originally Posted by grantlogan

Rofl, like she was going to tell you, "Oh btw I fucked my ex at his bday pty." OF COURSE SHE LIED YOU DINGUS.

http://images.bluegartr.com/customav...tar33927_3.gif

edit: Also OP, learn some fucking grammar/syntax after you dump the bitch, I didn't understand a word of what you said.

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