Seriously how does a guy stay with just one woman?

[Howard Roark]

most days I'm fine but today I was like I want that one and that one and that one and that one and that one and

obviously at somepoint you should probably be pragmatic about it and be like ok hmm, who's gonna make me happiest, who could I spend decades with etc. Other things like financial compatibility I don't really like to think about but unfortunately those are realistic too. Ivve mentioned the idea of being with a woman who can support herself (the guy also being able to support himself) and I concur.


I'm 28 and I'm thinking house purchase in the near future (should have bought one by now but hey) so the idea of starting over with some NEWPUSSY is less reasonable, but sometimes I feel HIGHLY unreasonable, and the desire to be reckless and go with this girl and that girl is intoxicating


guys: wtf are we supposed to do lol




ladies: anyone in an open relationship? how's that working for you, and how did you find that person/bring the subject up to an existing relationship

[tyven]

serious relationships for people under age 30 are fucking retarded. stop being a retard and get some strange

[Conrad]

Well some guys have the problem just getting one pussy, let alone choosing others besides the one they have.

[Howard Roark]

like, take kia for example, she's a hot smokin babe, but you know what? I was born in 1980, I'll be 29 in 6 weeks and she's ELEVEN years younger than me

WHAT THE HELL lol

shit's getting weird

[Kiarax]

Paedophile.

[Shiroikage]

Well some guys have the problem just getting one pussy, let alone choosing others besides the one they have.

I would wingman you up some pussy if I was not a million miles away.

[Zanz L. Barre The 3rd]

I've been reflecting on a similar topic lately. Something like 3% of mammals have one partner for life, and it's likely the human is not a part of that percentage, right?

[Howard Roark]

I'm on'y witto

you're over 18 I won't be doin' any tiiii-eeeee-iime

[Conrad]

I would wingman you up some pussy if I was not a million miles away.

Would you hypothetically wear the rose shirt?

[Howard Roark]

I've been reflecting on a similar topic lately. Something like 3% of mammals have one partner for life, and it's likely the human is not a part of that percentage, right?

I'm top of the foodchain baby, I want what's comin to me

[Shiroikage]

Would you hypothetically wear the rose shirt?

Hypothetically, you know it.

[Linliel]

idk i guess you just find the sort of person you think you can put up with for a while and well there's a lot of comfort knowing you have some really serious unquestioning support and they're not gonna go weird and drama-y on you or anything.

open relationships are pretty weird. I don't think I could do it. Mostly because other people suck. I have super high standards

[Conrad]

That is theoretically awesome.

[Linliel]

mind you i guess i don't qualify but i'm thinking of it from my ltr partner's perspective

[Zanz L. Barre The 3rd]

I'm top of the foodchain baby, I want what's comin to me

Filet Mignon and vagina (medium rare).

[Howard Roark]

I dunno, me and the woman are kinda settling int that friends for life status, I'm pretty sure I'll settle down with her and stuff and make all those long term plans but the asshole part of me is looking for a reason good enough to call it off and start over with some new talent

this used to hit me hard in spring, and when I was younger and more selfish (and had more time to waste before 30) we used to break up kinda often; she used to say "You don't like me in May" and I don't know that she put it together why exactly that was


she is definitely not the type to be cool with open relationships, but I almost feel like if I were some arab dude with my harem, she'd be the #1 wife, my main squeeze, the one I hang out with all the time or go to for advice and take with me to concerts

the mistresses would be disposable, like a muse or something




idk

[Kuya]

I think i'm going to try polyamory.

[Howard Roark]

is that simultaneous?


that's another thing, I care about my gf enough that in all honesty I'd be too jealous to go through with a 3some unless the 3rd was a chick, but I also know she'd be jealous of the 3rd being a chick so...


anyway 2 disposable chicks or fun loving friends like say Sera and Ivve or Kia and Kaelia would be super foxy; never really had the chance to do that


am I missing out?

[Kuya]

Polyamory (from Greek πολυ [poly, meaning many or several] and Latin amor [love]) is the practice, desire, or acceptance of having more than one intimate sexual relationship at a time with the consent of everyone involved.
Polyamory, often abbreviated to poly, is sometimes described as consensual, ethical, or responsible non-monogamy. The word is occasionally used more broadly to refer to any sexual or romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive, though there is disagreement on how broadly it applies; an emphasis on ethics, honesty, and transparency all around is widely regarded as the crucial defining characteristic.

"Polyamorous" can refer to the nature of a relationship at a given time, or be used as a description of a philosophy or relationship orientation (much like gender orientation), rather than a person's actual relationship status at a given moment. It is an umbrella term that covers various forms of multiple relationships; polyamorous arrangements are varied, reflecting the choices and philosophies of the individuals involved.

Polyamory differs from polygamy, which refers to multiple marriage (although the word "polygamy" is often used to refer only to polygyny: one man with several wives.) Traditional polygamy is usually patriarchical and often claims a religious justification. Polyamory, on the other hand, is a more modern outlook grounded in such concepts as gender equality, self-determination, free choice for all involved, mutual trust, equal respect among partners, the intrinsic value of love, the ideal of compersion, and other mostly secular ideals. As of July, 2009 there are estimated to be more than 500,000 polyamorous relationships in the United States.[1][2]

Very pro description on wikipedia, but it does sound good on paper, and if some people can make it work out, i think i should give it a shot.

[Howard Roark]

I want that.