Valentines day gift ideas

[HAcoreRD]

Ok, with Christmas over and new years isn't a 'great' day for couples in the early stages of a relationship, I turn my attention to Valentines day.

While there's many girls I have intentions on shopping for, there's one girl, who, while she's with her boyfriend for over 6 years, I still believe I can have a shot with. After all, not even marriage is forever.

Anyways, I been talking to her for 2 months. She knows I'm interested, but she cannot do anything because her man wont allow her. Christmas I got her a card with a whole little love note in it, and i was thinking while i can get another for v-day, a small gift would truly be the sweetest path.

Talking to the girls at my job, they gave me ideas:

*No Chocolate
*1 Rose
*Teddy Bear
*Something symbolic (she and I would understand)

my last girlfriend I knew for 4 years before we dated, so on Valentines I gave her a teddy bear with 4 roses (one for each year). This time around I feel I need to romance her over.

BG got any gift suggestions/ideas? Typically I'd ask her out to a fancy place but I think her man might be controlling her relationship, thus, not allow it.... and i'm sure he's thinking along the same lines too. Well, if he loves her anyway.

[Tyche]

So the girl has a boyfriend or is she married? My best suggestion...stop being a prick and messing with someone else's girlfriend.

[Koyuki]

So the girl has a boyfriend or is she married? My best suggestion...stop being a prick and messing with someone else's girlfriend.

Inc. but like were so compatible and she speaks with me alot, it must mean something!

[Tyche]

Typically I'd ask her out to a fancy place but I think her man might be controlling her relationship, thus, not allow it.... and i'm sure he's thinking along the same lines too. Well, if he loves her anyway.

Unless I'm completely reading this out of context, this has to be the most disillusioned comment ever. You are writing love notes to her for christmas, and you think her man is controlling her relationship? Seriously, if some asshole was writing love notes to your girlfriend of 6 years would you let him take your girlfriend on a date? You think THAT's controlling? I know I'm coming across as an asshole, but maybe I shouldn't be. I'm just really fucking confused here.

[Maguspk]

If she has a boyfriend and you're still giving her attention there is no way you're going to win her over. She's already won, you're just filling whatever hole she wants filled, in this case emotionally I guess.

[Sythe]

I say go for it! And i hope you get her, mostly cause i can't wait to see your next thread that's titled "OMG i can't believe she left me?!?!"

[Cephius]

She's toying with your emotions and not telling you to leave because you're giving her the kind of attention that her current boyfriend doesn't anymore. The "oh my god I love you" kind. Like most girls, she craves that kind of attention and won't turn it down unless you come on too strong, which you haven't. It doesn't matter. She's not leaving her man for you.

Get out now. You're just going to get hurt in the end.

[Mizango]

So the girl has a boyfriend or is she married? My best suggestion...stop being a prick and messing with someone else's girlfriend.

This!! A million times over. This can not end well for you, trust me.

God help you if he is anything like I am in person. The one thing you do not do is mess with another man's family (kids or no kids) because he is still emotionally invested in some form or fashion and will stop at nothing to maim or seriously injure you. Emotions are a hell of a drug, like Ceph said, get our while you still can man.

That's real talk. Take what she tells you with a grain of salt, she's wanting her proverbial cake and eating it too.

[Kyo]

I thought the same thing tyche did when I read it, you think a woman has been with a man for 6 years and he's just going to let you take her out, your a fuckin crazy.

[Mizango]

Listen to Big Worm...

"Playing with my money is like playing with my emotions"

Want to see the must unassuming person flip and do a complete 180 and go buck fucking wild on society? Fuck with his relationship. He will load up and throw caution to the wind and not stop until he has you in a very precarious and dangerous situation. Take a deep breath, try to go out and put this emotional tease behind you.

[HAcoreRD]

I thought the same thing tyche did when I read it, you think a woman has been with a man for 6 years and he's just going to let you take her out, your a fuckin crazy.

never expected that. He keeps her from going out with her friends (girls) at work.

I yet to ask her out once so far.

and in seriousness. It's fair game until she married. She's not, I know i'm going down a trail of fuck, but I acknowledge this fact and still tread on.

[Rocl]

So what you're saying is you're desperate. In which case, threaten to kill yourself unless she goes on a date with you.

[quannum]

give her your balls on a silver platter.

... oh wait you already have.

[Mizango]

Fair game until married you say? Good luck with that, you're asking for a lifetime of heartache. I know you're a "HAcoreRD" dude and all but I would seriously fuck you up beyond belief if I were in his shoes and you were adamant about pursuing this.

Tread lightly my man if you are serious about pursuing this, just no that no pussy is worth being hurt over. Sure when its new it has all of the novelty and newness as it should. But trust me, when the luster wears off you are left with more drama than you are considering right now. To each his own I suppose, I find it hard to respect you at the moment and am interested to see what happens when BF of 6 years catches up to you. Pray he is nothing like me.

"Good" luck lol.

[Penthesilea]

Fair game until married you say? Good luck with that, you're asking for a lifetime of heartache. I know you're a "HAcoreRD" dude and all but I would seriously fuck you up beyond belief if I were in his shoes and you were adamant about pursuing this.

Tread lightly my man if you are serious about pursuing this, just no that no pussy is worth being hurt over. Sure when its new it has all of the novelty and newness as it should. But trust me, when the luster wears off you are left with more drama than you are considering right now. To each his own I suppose, I find it hard to respect you at the moment and am interested to see what happens when BF of 6 years catches up to you. Pray he is nothing like me.

"Good" luck lol.

While I agree with everyone so far, there's always that adage that goes "Show me a hot girl, and I'll show you a guy tired of fucking her." While it is true, it doesn't make it right to barge in on some other dudes relationship.

[Mizango]

lol I remember that timeless adage. I totally forgot about that one.

[HAcoreRD]

So what you're saying is you're desperate. In which case, threaten to kill yourself unless she goes on a date with you.

i'm sure someone out there tried that and was rejected.

He's not alive to help us though. I'm a notch above desperate, in my mind atleast.

If i don't get her, then /shrug. That's why there's other girls on my valentines list, because I know one likes me atm, and we been friends for 2 years. Only problem is she goes through boyfriends like you guys go through condoms, no pun intended.

[Kyo]

I can understand pineing after someone, Ive done it, but i really think this situation is overboard. If I was the guy, I'd rearrange your face, however I wish you luck and hoepfuly it'll be an expierence you can learn and grow from.

[skurlover]

I thought this thread was a bit premature, but I went ahead and clicked anyways. Then I get this gem of a story, fucking bravo my man, bravo!

Would laugh at you again, 9/10.














P.S. Done the same shit you are trying to pull, lost my best friend of 8+ years over it. I was at least lucky and didn't get my face pounded in. My suggestion, don't be the douchebag I was in H.S. and shortly thereafter.

[Penthesilea]

HAcoreRD , well then my friend, that'd be a steady relationship. I've been wearing the same condom for 2 years now, since my last fuck.



Skur, if I was to suggest how he should do it, it's to become best friends with the dude first, then steal his girl.